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Through one to one coaching, or participating in our "DIY Coaching" workshops, we can help you to develop your own "Life Plan", set your objectives and take measured and reasonable risks to get to the place that you want to be. Your Life Plan should be a part of your life. You should use it to bring the hidden desires to the surface. One of the great benefits of the Ife Plan is that you can see all the facets of yourself.

The Life Plan will help you find the courage to risk developing your life and points to the means for making it happen. The Life Plan also gives you a sense of balance and timing. You’ll know when to apply pressure, because you’ll know when something has to be done. You will also know when applying pressure is fruitless and likely to be seen as nagging. In a word, the Life Plan will give you the structure and discipline to pursue what you want.

You need to have as many options open for living your life as possible. If your happiness and success depend on only one aspect of your talent or training, you’re more vulnerable than if you have several dimensions to your life. Your Life Plan makes you aware of all your passions and interests and gives you a direction and a method for implementing your dreams. It will help you discover a new relationship amongst your various interests and create a life that is uniquely your own!

Having developed your Life Plan, together we will answer the following questions:

· Who is the person reflected in these goals?

· What matters to this person?

· How determined is this person?

· What does this person want out of life?

· What has this person accomplished?

· What would make this person proud?

· What does this person need to do?

You deserve to find yourself!

DIY Coaching:

Vision

No one is freer that you are when you have discovered your gift and are sharing it with others. For then you have found yourself and are making a big difference in the world. You create your own happiness by doing what you love. You stay young because you expect to get better with everything that you do. You’re easy to love because you don’t need a person’s love to make you happy. You are already happy!

 

Finding your gift does not magically make life perfect or render you impervious to the problems of the world. However you are no longer crushed by indifference humiliated by your own mistakes or paralysed with loss. You act as your own person, with your own identity.

 

It doesn’t matter how big or important your gift is. All that matters is that it’s yours and you are free to give it! When you find your gift, you are the master of your corner of the world. You are responsible for yourself. Your job is to make the best of the opportunities that your life unfolds for you. You create your own luck by being prepared to take risks in your own best interest whenever and wherever they appear. To do this you need to know what you want! Knowing yourself is the best preparation!

 

You can’t try out someone else’s life to get a better understanding of your own. When you try to emulate a lifestyle that you don’t come by naturally you always lose something of yourself and become a prisoner of your needs. It’s disheartening to go through life always wondering if you’ve made the right choices or missed your true calling.

 

The lifestyle that is best for you must exert a special seductive pull on you senses and have the capacity to arrest your attention, wiping the numbers from the clock face so that your work alone determines the passage of time. Being happy in your work is being successful.

 

The person you finally become is always a part of what you do. If your work is the right work, it is the friend that never lets you down, your love object, your amusement and finally your memorial.

 

If you were doing what you loved most about your work, each day would be fulfilling. The work might continue to be difficult but at least it would bring you closer to the self-realisation. You would not trouble yourself wondering if you were wasting your life.

 

The world is a big place for you to get a sense of yourself against the broader and often confused canvas. You need to be the master of a little world of your own. You need to have a sense of mastery over your own identity and be able to affect your destiny not out of desperation or sudden urgency but through the enthusiasm and love for the work you generate.

 

All of this boils down to valuing yourself enough to think, if I like it, it’s good. What others think of your choices should have nothing to do with your happiness. You have to live in your body, in your mind, feeling your feelings, living your life. You might as well please yourself JThe reactions of others are just a commentary.

 

So trust yourself when you feel the urge to pick up the thread of a dream abandoned long agoJ When you think of an old dream, you might wonder if you were fooling yourself for believing it was possible. Maybe you were never certain you had the ability to succeed.

 

At such troublesome times you need most to believe in yourself. You need to find courage by believing in the necessity of the thing that you are about to do so you can go faster rather than falter. Instead, out of fear of discovering your true worth you often back away from giving your best and fail.

 

Finding the right life should be your subject of study every day. Deciding what you are going to do next should always be in your mind. It is up to you to create a life that works for you, that feels right, that makes you happyJ No-one can do this for you. No education can prepare you for it, No amount of parental support ensures that you’ll find the right life, and no amount of parental abuse or neglect can keep you from discovering it if you’re determined. The right life doesn’t just happen to you. No teacher taps you on the shoulder and tells you what is to become of you. In fact too many people go through life without knowing what became of them. You need to find the right life for yourself.

 

When you find your gift, the world is enriched by your discovery. The problems of the world will still be there, but finally you would be able to address them with confidence, sincerity and optimism. It doesn’t mattes how much or how large a portion of the world you create, only that you create your own part.

 

If you cannot manifest the longing of your spirit and the bidding of your imagination, you are an incomplete person. You may be well thought of, a captain of industry or an excellent group leader, but if the evolving destiny of the race does not make further strides through you, you are in some way handicapped.

 

The basic attitude of the of a creative mind is hopefulness, the hope of creating something out of nothing, making order, finding balance, superimposing a sense of design on chaos, and bringing the world into harmony with itself. A cynic would argue that the world was fine until humans put their hands on it! A creative mind would respond by creating a sense of beauty somewhere and letting that creation speak for itself.

 

Through one to one coaching, or participating in our "Finding your gift" workshops, we can help you to develop your own "Life Plan", set your objectives and take measured and reasonable risks to get to the place that you want to be. Your Life Plan should be a part of your life. You should use it to bring the hidden desires to the surface. One of the great benefits of the Life Plan is that you can see all the facets of yourself. The Life Plan will help you find the courage to risk developing your life and points to the means for making it happen.

 

The Life Plan also gives you a sense of balance and timing. You’ll know when to apply pressure, because you’ll know when something has to be done. You will also know when applying pressure is fruitless and likely to be seen as nagging. In a word, the Life Plan will give you the structure and discipline to pursue what you want.

 

You need to have as many options open for living your life as possible. If your happiness and success depend on only one aspect of your talent or training, you’re more vulnerable than if you have several dimensions to your life. Your Life Plan makes you aware of all your passions and interests and gives you a direction and a method for implementing your dreams. It will help you discover a new relationship amongst your various interests and create a life that is uniquely your own!

 

Having developed your Life Plan, together we will answer the following questions:

· Who is the person reflected in these goals?

· What matters to this person?

· How determined is this person?

· What does this person want out of life?

· What has this person accomplished?

· What would make this person proud?

· What does this person need to do?

You deserve to find yourself!

 
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